Placing conditions on our lives and our happiness has become the norm. We see it all the time: We must establish a career before looking for a relationship. We must find love before feeling fulfilled. We must feel stressed out until we finish everything on our to-do list. But by far, the most common conditions we put on ourselves revolve around our weight--no love until we lose the weight, no pursuing a dream until we lose the weight, no happiness until we lose the weight. But now there's a better option.