In almost any story, we must be patient with some of it.
One must not mind some of the stern principles that might seem repressive to some of us.
Personally, I hate pride, so that can bother me when shown as something positive. A few other things that didn't make perfect-to-me people or ideas,

But that is part of the beauty of the book. You can enjoy those who are not perfect, and in understanding them, appreciate their fine points (: Ignore some ideas we disagree with, while enjoying the whole.

That sounds too stuffy, I guess, but I found the book light reading, enjoyable, refreshing. There are also many aspects of freedom, so I did not find the overall presentation too heavy.

One of the really nice things, is that there is more than one couple to fall in love; And, they are not all exact carbon copies of each other.

Because of the various differences between the successful couples, one can believe that true love may be found without having to be only one personality, invested with only kind of talent.

As we are not always perfect ourselves, we can forgive a moment of shallowness in someone else, and be glad for all the happy outcomes there are!